Module 1: The Mental ModelLesson 4 of 5

Memory as a Shared Notebook

Memory as a Shared Notebook

This is where most people go wrong with agents.

They treat memory as a database. It's not.

Memory is a compressed understanding of the world.

The Problem With Databases

If you tried to store every conversation in a database:

  • Retrieval becomes expensive
  • Context windows overflow
  • Relevance is hard to determine
  • Old information drowns new information

The Solution: Hierarchical Memory

Think of how your brain works:

  • You don't remember every word of every conversation
  • You remember the gist — the important parts
  • Details fade unless reinforced
  • Some things are always accessible (your name, important facts)

OpenClaw memory works the same way:

Layer 1: Working Memory (Always Loaded)

memory/WORKING.md - Current task - Active blockers - Next steps

This is what's on your desk right now.

Layer 2: Index (Always Loaded)

MEMORY.md - Who is who (1-liner per person) - Key projects (pointers to detail files) - Critical rules and commitments - File paths to everything else

This is your table of contents. It knows where things are, not what they all contain.

Layer 3: Deep Memory (Loaded On-Demand)

memory/people/tom.md — Details about Tom memory/projects/hq.md — HQ project details memory/knowledge/*.md — Lessons, playbooks memory/daily/*.md — What happened each day

These are your filing cabinets. You pull them when needed.

Layer 4: Semantic Search (Fallback)

memory_search("polymarket strategy") → Returns relevant snippets with file paths

When you're not sure where something is, search for it.

The Core Principle

Know WHERE, not WHAT

Your index (MEMORY.md) stores pointers, not content.

❌ Bad:

## Tom Tom is my human. He founded TK100X GmbH in 2024. He was previously co-founder of App Radar which was acquired by SplitMetrics in 2023. He lives in Graz, Austria. His goal is €50K MRR by December 2026. He prefers Cloudflare over Vercel. He uses meditation apps. He was a national paper airplane champion...

✅ Good:

## People - **Tom** — my human, founder TK100X, lives in Graz → Details: memory/people/tom.md

The index stays under 3KB. Details live in dedicated files.

When Memory Gets Written

EventAction
Important decisionLog to daily + update relevant file
New person mentionedCreate people file + add to index
Correction from userUpdate fact + log the learning
Project milestoneUpdate project file
Session endingFlush working memory to daily log

When Memory Gets Read

TriggerWhat Gets Loaded
Session startMEMORY.md + WORKING.md + today's daily
Person discussedTheir people file
Project workThat project file
UncertainSemantic search

The Forgetting Feature

This sounds counterintuitive, but forgetting is essential.

Without compression:

  • Context fills up
  • Old noise drowns new signal
  • Performance degrades
  • Costs explode

With compression:

  • Daily logs get summarized
  • Old details fade
  • Important facts persist
  • System stays fast

The key is being intentional about what persists.

Persist:

  • Decisions and their reasoning
  • User preferences and corrections
  • Project milestones
  • Lessons learned

Let fade:

  • Casual conversation
  • Temporary debugging
  • Already-acted-upon information

This is Module 4 in detail. For now, just understand: memory is a compressed, hierarchical system — not a database dump.